Long term poster but name changed for this post.
Been with DH for 25 years married 15. We have had put up and downs over the years but mostly good. We have a good life together. Last few months not great he’s been distant and I suspected him cheating he denied it but I’m not convinced. Anyway sex life has recently dwindled and is very boring. Last three times he didn’t ejaculate and although I was upset I brushed over it. He isn’t a very loving person hardly any physical affect eg kiss before work etc. It feels more like room mates than anything. I’ve tried to come on to him a few times and he didn’t respond. I’ve told him I’m not putting in the effort anymore if he’s not. I just feel like it is convenient for him the marriage as he literally goes to work and comes home. I deal with everything and have a full time job. I just feel like I if I bring it up it will turn into an argument, I just feel like I can’t talk to him about it and I can’t take it anymore.