How can i leave my husband?

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I'll try keep this as short as possible.

I own a business which he is employed by.

We rent all in my name.

I pay all the bills.

4 children

I need him to leave as practical he has family in the same town, mine are all 5 hours away. So ideally need to keep the house.

He is emotionally manipulate, wastes all his wages and doesn't contribute. Hos shouting and demanding behaviour is affecting the children to the point they don't want to come home. He blames everyone else when something goes wrong eg, ill be cooking, he will be sat on his phone and 2 year old may fall ober, it's everyone else's fault often demanding the older children watch the 2 year old so he doesn't have to(obviously ive always got my eye on everything but sometimes i cant).

How can i ask him to leave? I can't talk to him as he just shouts and threatens to take a child with him. He won't seek help either.

If everything is in your name only he has no rights to stay there.
Are all the children his ?

you could tell him to leave and if he doesn’t your getting the police because of verbal abuse
would he actually take one of the ?( probably not, as you said he gets the older kid to look after 2 yr old) they would be a hinder to him

Very simple. If you have occupancy rights, you can get a court order to make an abusive partner to leave your home and then get legal advice.

Is he named on the tenancy agreement?

Not named on tenancy and oy the youngest child is his. Sorry for late reply

He is an abudive partner and the police take that very seriously.

Pack his bags for him and change the locks. If that is too subtle a hint call the rozzers. It may help to have a friend around for moral support and statement making.