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sparkedsparkle · 09/09/2023 16:35

Been with dp 10 years and this morning he accused me of full on cheating in him. We had sex last night and was all fine. (We don't have sex very often) and then this morning he said "yesterday it felt like you'd a,ready had sex" wtf?!
Now I know I have y been with anyone whilst I've been with him full stop ever. Yesterday evening was hit I was in and out of the covers a lot from sweating etc. I'm baffled I don't even know what to say to him or think because he's barely said a word to me today!!!

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Opentooffers · 09/09/2023 18:18

You might find he's transferring onto you. Has he been unreachable lately? Changed his appearance or taken more care of it? Has he ever accused before? Ignore for now, don't even bother defending it. He's disgusting to say such things, but it's probably more a sign of what he's getting up to.
I'd be casting a scrutinising eye over him ( and maybe some snooping).

Crikeyalmighty · 09/09/2023 18:26

I would be snooping too- it's a very weird thing to say and often these things creep in when they themselves have been up to no good

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sparkedsparkle · 09/09/2023 20:53

Ty for replies.I doubt he's playing away he works long hours and has always kept me up to date. He rings me when he's in work van then again when in his car etc.
I've had form of cheating in past relationships that's he's aware of as I was honest but completely thrown me off with this accusation tbh

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