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Upset with bf

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 08:28

My partner came to cook dinner.
I spent since yesterday feeling off.
I went & bought some nice food for dinner.
He came started.to.cook.
He couldn't find a bowl and snapped then I said hwy over a bowl I.mean get real.
He saod it was me being pathetic.
Today he called my fiesty on the phone.
I am straight up, he is placid yet moody but is always right & prefect.
My one night a.fortnight to relax and he throws a shitty over the fact I couldn't name where the bowl was.
(My teen does the dishes as he knows.)
I am the bosses favourite, fiesty,
He always seems to have issue with my striahht up strong minded personality yet other male friends do not..of course not the same relationship.
What I did was went to my room, thru my jacket out the window, walked to the park and wrote this.
He is at my house.
I can't be bothered and my delicious meal well!.
I'm sick of his jealously and telling me I am the bosses favourite yesterday.
Can a bf be jealous I'm more liked.

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DysmalRadius · 09/09/2023 08:36

It sounds like there are several different issues at play here - do you think jealousy is the root of all of them?

Icycloud · 09/09/2023 08:38

You’re both so dramatic

Motnight · 09/09/2023 08:39

So much drama.

Thebigblueballoon · 09/09/2023 08:41

This reads like the world’s worst poem.

Readingisgoodforyou · 09/09/2023 08:47

I'd be more bothered about only being able to relax once a fortnight than throwing my jacket out the window over an argument over a bowl.

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/09/2023 08:49

Thebigblueballoon · 09/09/2023 08:41

This reads like the world’s worst poem.

That's how I read it too 😆

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 09:31

Excalty why I am annoyed.
I like my fortnightly breaks..it is not a problem for me , what I have a problem with is someone coming into my home, parking I front of my car and thinking they can take charge.

I get home to Are you not talking to me?
Then yelling
No no no in my face when I said sorry I didn't know not knowing where what you wanted was but of that's a problem to get upset about world first problems that is.
If only my teen put shit in the correct place u wonder what I would've done otherwise to be picked at for a fight.
Drama, poem whatever.

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 09:34

Readingisgoodforyou · 09/09/2023 08:47

I'd be more bothered about only being able to relax once a fortnight than throwing my jacket out the window over an argument over a bowl.

Threw it out my window and walked out to get it so I could peacefully walk away from his shitty mood and first time he's yelled.
Was I supposed to stay and be subjected to his wind up.
No.

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Dotcheck · 09/09/2023 09:34

Why on earth would your boyfriend be jealous of your boss?

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 09:35

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/09/2023 08:49

That's how I read it too 😆

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He has a drinking problem too
So your name & advice means nothing.

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Popcorn640 · 09/09/2023 09:37

So end the relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

Popcorn640 · 09/09/2023 09:37

...and put your jacket on before you walk out the door - throwing it out the window seems a bit unnecessary...

ToughFuss · 09/09/2023 09:41

This is absolutely ridiculous to read, throwing your jacket out of the window so you could ‘peacefully’ walk away ffs 😂 you’re both overdramatic and sound very immature.

iamnottoofatiamjusttooshort · 09/09/2023 09:41

Jeeeeez
Who could be bothered with all this drama

Thebigblueballoon · 09/09/2023 09:43

OP, your initial post (and question) is just a bit bizarre and confusing. You lost me when you threw your coat out of the window.
If you’re asking if your boyfriend could be jealous your boss likes you more than him then, yep, sure, he could be. But this is far from your only problem. Bickering over a bowl?! Wtf. And you work with this guy?! Talk about a complicated relationship… or break-up, as it probably should be.

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/09/2023 10:44

readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 09:35

He has a drinking problem too
So your name & advice means nothing.

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Who pissed on your chips?

ohgawdnah · 09/09/2023 12:47

Sounds like there’s several issues here, one of the main ones being that you don’t actually seem to like your boyfriend much to start with.
“…he is placid yet moody but is always right”
“He always seems to have issue with my striahht up strong minded personality”
“I'm sick of his jealously”
“He has a drinking problem too”
If this is how you feel and you’re also having silly melodramatic arguments over nothing it’d probably be better for both of you to just split up?

Then on top of that it sounds like you’re very dramatic, which will only ever escalate conflict in any relationship. Throwing your coat out of the window is the sort of thing a teenager would do for dramatic effect. Why wouldn’t you just tell him you’re going for a walk to calm down and clear your head?

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 13:19

ohgawdnah · 09/09/2023 12:47

Sounds like there’s several issues here, one of the main ones being that you don’t actually seem to like your boyfriend much to start with.
“…he is placid yet moody but is always right”
“He always seems to have issue with my striahht up strong minded personality”
“I'm sick of his jealously”
“He has a drinking problem too”
If this is how you feel and you’re also having silly melodramatic arguments over nothing it’d probably be better for both of you to just split up?

Then on top of that it sounds like you’re very dramatic, which will only ever escalate conflict in any relationship. Throwing your coat out of the window is the sort of thing a teenager would do for dramatic effect. Why wouldn’t you just tell him you’re going for a walk to calm down and clear your head?

I didn't throw my coat out the window infron of him I went & did it out my bedroom window so I could without him realising...he would follow me.
So how is that dramatic?
He is moody because he wants everything his way and my behaviour how he thinks I should be.
The part about him being jealous is I am well liked than he is. Simple.
No I have little tolerance for drinking as a way to solve problems or get thru life.
Being small minded over a missed bowl was the whole point...I've been ill, he arrives to get shitty over nothing...I bugger off because I was far from feeling up to being picked on or yelled at.
If you can not understand why a man resents my personality then it's clear I am wasting my time and God help me to ask this circus again!

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readingmynightaway · 09/09/2023 13:20

vodkaredbullgirl · 09/09/2023 10:44

Who pissed on your chips?

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Feral!

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ohgawdnah · 09/09/2023 13:47

You're being quite aggressive in your responses to people on here. Why?

You felt you had to throw your coat out of the window because he would have followed you, even if you'd asked him not to? Did you leave through the window too?

You're describing a man who doesn't respect your boundaries, you say he's moody and wants everything his own way, you feel that he's jealous of you, he has a problem with drinking which you can't tolerate, you feel like he's picking on you and you think he resents your personality.
Why are you with him? Wouldn't ending the relationship be better for you both?

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