Crush / inappropriate

[Crtufh1233]

I feel crap about this and it’s making me feel down. I can’t discuss this with anyone in RL as I feel ashamed. I am married but have somehow over the years of working with this person developed a crush on them. I am doing all the usual, staying away from them as much as I can but we had to work on a project recently and had a lot of chats. Which made the situation far worse. I wouldn’t ever bring this up with them. I don’t even understand what I like about this person. He normally comes over to chat with me but today he didn’t and I felt sad. This is so ridiculous. I feel utterly ridiculous. Should I see a therapist or how to get over this feeling?

This made me laugh! Thank you.

Try and see him only over MSTeams ( worked for me!)

Unfortunately, we now have to go in three days a week. But thankfully I don’t think we are always in on the same days.

Just imagine him sat in the loo having a huge stinky noisy dump.
Then imagine being in bed with him and he burps, farts and plays with his belly button and ear wax and eats his boogy.

Start a conversation about politics and religion. There's bound to be a clash and you won't find him as attractive anymore/