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I no longer feel the same

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Soconfusedsoph · 08/09/2023 15:31

I’ve realised recently that after many years of marriage, I no longer feel the same about my husband. We have three DC 6, 10 and 12 but I feel so disconnected from my husband, there seems to be no feelings there at all. I have thought about leaving but I feel so selfish for even considering it and financially I don’t think it’s affordable for me, tearing our family life apart. I am so confused. Has anyone found themselves in this situation?

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whirlygirly · 08/09/2023 20:42

That sounds really difficult.

I was reading this week how normal this is to feel during peri menopause. A friend then said the same had happened to her. Could that be a part of it for you do you think?

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Soconfusedsoph · 08/09/2023 21:10

I am not sure if I am peri menopausal but I will read into this, thank you.

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