Dating

[Notmytotoro]

I had to dates with a coworker,we are from different teams in different floors of the building.
We buy our lunches at the same pret at around same time, we also met few times in the corridors, lift etc. He has been always flirting with me. He asked me to have drinks then he asked me again to have lunch together. We talk daily by whatsapp but another co worker said she thought he was married. I check on social media and I couldn't find his accounts, he does no wear ring, he never talked about being married and he texts me almost all day. If he would be married wouldn't his wife being suspicious about it? Also would he being meeting after work for drinks or metting to lunch on saturday?
He also asked me to have dinner with him at his home. Is he is married why is he inviting me to his home?
Should I ask him if he is married or just go to his home and forget it?

You've only got a 2nd hand rumour at this stage so I'd take that with a pinch of salt. Check out his place if you like for signs - but be aware if he's inviting you to his, sex is probably an expectation at that point unless you've made it clear beforehand that it's not on the cards.
Just ask if he's single, that's the best you can do early on - some men can lie about things, but that's on them.