Not sure if I'm being over sensitive about this or not so would appreciate others' perspectives...
I suffer from anxiety, most of the time these days I feel it is under control and I am in good mental health, but sharing for context. Despite feeling generally mentally okay at the moment, I had a panic attack on the bus yesterday. I had my DS in the buggy and we settled into the buggy space no problems. I'm also 6 months pregnant but seats were limited so I stood behind the buggy and felt fine to stand. The previous bus hadn't turned up so as we went by each stop it began to get quite busy and eventually people were lining the aisle and we became sort of fenced into the buggy space. It was at this point that I quite suddenly felt I was short of breath, pounding heart, my ears started ringing and everything sounded quite far away and I was worried I was going to faint. I leant against the side of the bus and eventually got off a few stops early to walk. As soon as I was off the bus I felt better, though I was drenched in sweat by this point. I carried on with my day and had no ill effects physically afterwards but it shook me up a bit as it's been a long time since I had a panic attack and I had thought I was in a good place.
I said all of this to DH when we were both home in the evening and he didn't pass a comment at all. Didn't offer a hug, didn't ask if I was okay, he didn't really even acknowledge what I'd said, just moved the conversation on to talking about his day. Am I being unreasonable to have expected some sort of concern? Just an acknowledgment that it was unpleasant and a quick hug would have been enough I think, but am I expecting too much? I have noticed recently that whereas I ask DH how his day has been, he rarely asks me the same...