Been together 30+ years. He's started a new job after living off me for the last 10 years. He had to get a job. It's been nothing but moaning and tension for 3 months.
He said that my job will be to do everything in the flat. The lot. I'm 70. He's on leave for 2 weeks and he is now depressed. He tells me he's going to cut his throat, then he's going to set fire to the flat. He's been putting me down dreadfully. Said that I had a significant double chin and should get plastic surgery. He told me I don't think if others. When I dared retort wth 'I asked the (obviously tired looking woman) if she wanted my seat ' - as an example of me not being selfish. He replied in a whining voice 'That was silly. You were older than her'.
He'll start to scream and shout at me for nothing. But it's my fault he's depressed. I can't actually stand this any longer. He's got me jumping at my own shadow and he says he is scared of me. He's been in bed all day now. When he gets up it will be screaming at me again. He actually told me today that I don't have the confidence to do things. I think he wants me dead. He despises me and says he loves me. I'm actually terrified of him.