I divorced my ex husband in 2010 mostly because of his cannabis ( and cocaine I think, although not proven) habit, social services were not really interested and told me I had to keep the children safe - I tried, he had access on a Saturday, no overnight stays. He has lived with first his elderly parents and now just with his mother since his father died. Kids were 11, 8 and 5 when we divorced. How 24, 21 and 8 so all legally adults.
age found out he has been supplying them with cannabis since they were 14 years old. have known they were smoking and done everything I could to talk them though the downsides, all have failed academically due to apathy and lack of motivation, two are now basically drifting due to excess cannabis use that just means they have no motivation to do anything at all. I do not give them money, beyond housing ad feeding them,. I now find out. all along he was encouraging them to smoke with him, giving them weed and promoting the view that its harmless and of no consequence.
I know there is nothing at all I can do. He has no friends and no life and he's trying to turn his kids into weed addicted losers like him. Short of moving to Australia, there is nothing at all I can do is there ?