Is it me again

[Rockgirl84]

I've been with my partner 6 years after coming out of an physical,mental,emotional marriage, My partner is and has always been a loving person. Lately they've been diagnosed with mid depression and on tablets.
Also they've be more withdrawn, angry,rude.
Last night after a couple of drinks they were being absolutely horrible, calling me names,threatening to hit me,sneering at me. This morning they upset.
I told them today to leave for at least a day so I can clear my head.
They messaged saying no money to stay anywhere,I know that's bull.
Tried calling and texting them but no reply.
I've been here before and now the traits but just need reassuring it's not me.

It's not you

And you need to get out before it gets worse

It’s absolutely not you. You can’t make someone behave like this, at some level they are choosing to.
You deserve more.

Do you rent? Joint tenants?
Do you own the property?
If it's joint you can't make him leave unless you are in danger.

Absolutely not you. Mental health issues are no excuse for abusing your partner. It’s nonsense. Hold firm, don’t text or call anymore. Get out before it gets worse.