I need to know what to do I’m controlled massively by kids dad financially, he works I don’t he don’t pay the bills I have to beg for money if he pays for flights to see family he’s reminds me all the time we had a gas bill to pay and he said to me I shouldn’t bath the kids everyday then I wouldn’t have a bill he has mental health issues even tho he won’t go to doctor to be diagnosed he’s very nasty towards me when he has a down day like he threatens to to tell my oldest child anything he can to make me look bad it isn’t his kid btw he supposed to live here and every other week he’s taking his belongings and moving back into his parents I’ve decided to do a course to gain financial independents back he’s has a good paid job a lot of money in the bank that I was unaware of and shows of money to me saying he can do this and that while I struggle he has real issue with women his mum is the main cause he makes me suffer won’t give me a break from the kids he’s extremely nosey and very bitchy for a man he wants to know in and outs of my friends business ect he tells me there not my friends or family he’s always trying isolate me I’ve tried to call domestic abuse help line and they don’t answer he’s very good at putting and act on but behaviour is getting worse I feel like I’ve become used to this with him that I don’t know how to break away but he’s gonna do something drastic one day and I’m worried and anxiety from what he does is through the roof please help me