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Stalking?

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Pandermonium · 01/09/2023 17:15

February of this year I went no contact with my narcissist mother and subsequently my father who, as always, went along with her bull.

Had the police out in June due to non stop phone calls, messages and daily banging on our door (since blocked all their numbers on all devices) .
We installed a security camera after my mother came screaming, shouting and threatening me.

Since camera was installed they have stopped coming to the door. They are still driving into our cul-de-sac and sitting in their car, most days, staring at/in our house meaning I now live with the curtains closed which is horrible.
Also leaving the house all day, every day to try and avoid them.
But they come at various times, multiple times a day sometimes as late as 10pm.

They recently Cornered my children at the park (it's next to the house) refusing to let them leave, demanding they talk to them.
The children do not wish to see or speak to them as they are terrified of my mother and her violent outbursts.

I have most of these visits documented although due to being out I haven't got all of them.
Has this now crossed from harassment to stalking?

It is very intimidating, I live in a state of constant fear and anxiety, as do my children. They are having nightmares and no longer play at the park or out the front.

The police have been very little help.
What can I do?

OP posts:
MrsMous · 02/09/2023 09:11

Report absolutely everything - EVERYTHING!! It’s important you raise how much is going on and how this is impacting on your family.

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