Just venting-My DP concerns me when we disagree. We are due to get married but whenever we argue, which is really not often, he always talks about ending the relationship.
I have found him awake and in the other room for two nights in a row now. Both times on his phone. Last night he said it's because for the last couple of days I haven't been affectionate. He then gave me examples of times he thought I hadn't returned his affection. None of which I had any recollection of. He admitted that he had wanted sex at the time. I had my period which he knew but he is still labouring the point despite saying he understands.
Only a week ago he was saying I was the most affectionate person he ever knew and commented on how we had a great sex life even though we'd been together for a long time.
So this has come out of the blue. He's now questioning the relationship and saying I act more like a friend. It seems to me like a classic line to pave the way for an affair. I did say this and it didn't go down well as you can imagine.
I'm at a loss at such a dramatic change in his thought processes from one week to the next. He has completely blown what is nothing out of all proportion and I can't find a way back with him.