My partners been acting weird lately. Not thinking another woman as such. He's had some money struggles lately. We don't love together. He has a severe problem with his back. He's had a plif operation 6 years ago and to cut a long story short. Nerve trapped on broken screw. Muscle damage. Spine is continuing to get worse. A rod has also come out and is now in his back causing him pain. He's been given every type of pain killer going and nothings helped. So he works and suffers. Not sure how he does it. I've seem his scans. They are shocking.
In recent weeks I've had many strange vibes coming off him. He's working full time and earns good pay. But he's only just got a flat after temporary staying in hotels for 4 months. The weeks leading up to getting the flat he was financially struggling with the costs of working and eating on the road and hotel bills. We were approached in the services one day by a man asking if he'd paid some money back to someone. My partner denied any knowledge to me of who it was. A week before this he had been mugged and turned up at my house with a head injury and his phone and money had been taken. He said it was a couple of random men.
On Monday night he messaged me late saying he needed to go to a&e. He was in extreme pain and I could see alot of swelling. He confessed his wages were gone. I could not really justify lending him £20 as I have things to pay for myself this week and work part time. The next day he continued to say he needed to go so I caved in and sent him £20. I will get it back Friday. After I sent it he started asking me where I was working (I work in various houses). This isn't something he normally shows interest in. He was apparently given oramorph and he phoned me a couple of hours later saying he felt terrible. Where we live the services are minimal. He has needed to go to the hospital an hour away for this. He has no car and he won't get an ambulance. Last night he began asking me how he could get there. I said the only option now is a train and taxi..it was going to cost £20 ,each way. So I agreed to send it. He got on the 7.36 train and it was due to arrive at 8.42. He text me at 8.15 saying he was there. I questioned it. He said he was waiting to pull in. His phone then died. His phone is broken and rubbish and he's had issues with it for weeks. So I heard nothing more until 5.30 this morning when he said he was back and going to work. He didn't mention anything about how he'd got on.
I called him and said how did you get back there's no trains in the night. He accused me of being a detective and not actually asking how he got on. He has told me he's had an mri and 2 injections and a porter brought him back who works there and lives a few villages away from us. He said this Dr had said the same as other Dr's and they were chasing the hospital who did his surgery.
I know this is long winded. But I just can't seem to believe he went. Maybe he did. But something isn't right?
What can I do?