help me with this decision

[luka77]

so my GF for 2.5 years brokeup with me she said it for reason coz i'm not jelous and stuff then after 4 months i texted her and we are talking now and it looks like we are gonna be together again but i she told me that in these 4 months she dated her EX for 3 of them and that she talked to him in the last week before our break up also she says that sh's still figuring out things and can't commit to a relationship with me coz she feels guilty and she doesn't wanna tell me the full story of what really happned until she figure her self out and understands all the things and that will happen in 2 weeks but my mind really can't stop thinking of these things and i have verry mixed feelings and i feel i can't wait for 2 weeks but she said I either wait or it will not work out

Do you want to be second choice? Because that is what you are.

idk sometimes that what i think of but then i realise that all their relationships are in total 6 months but we stayed alot more than that idk if i'm a second choice or not

You are her reserve. She wants to figure things out with her ex, and if that doesn't work then you will do.

Forget her, and someone will come along who wants you and nobody else.

but i saw her crying and being so depressed after our break up for a month then she started dating him

She's playing stupid games, wanting you to be jealous and setting each of you off against each other. Don't let her use you. She's manipulative. Walk away.

She's triangulating you to try and get a reaction.

I don't believe you are second choice, I think you are just not compatable, she wants someone who shows her they care.

You will probably go back out with her and then ignor and neglect her again.

Someone who messes you about like this doesn't care about you.

And they're not scared of losing you either.

She messing with your head . She also sounds like a liar, she was right back with her ex as soon you broke up. That's no accident. You both sound very young, Id be calling it a day