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Is the spark going. I sound like horrible gf

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Alicew00 · 28/08/2023 16:36

Whatever he says I do not find funny. I don't feel that want for him like I have with past boyfriends. With them I wanted them around all the time but not him. He keeps asking if I want him round and I feel like saying no everytime. Also when I ask him a question he keeps asking a question back!! It's so annoying.
He tries to make me laugh but I just stand there unimpressed. He says weird things and sends freaky pictures of himself to me constantly and he finds it hilarious but I find it ugly. Yesterday he asked me if we should put the Christmas tree up and expected me to laugh....no. ..
The other day his breath stunk so I politely told him. He just said sorry and when we got in bed he tried to kiss me and initiate sex but I had to put the cover over my mouth. It was disgusting. He's always got stuff stuck in his teeth and his front tooth is rotting. I'm a bit put off. I feel bad because I get along with his family and my family like him.

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Cupcakekiller · 28/08/2023 16:38

He sounds revolting. From your post it sounds like you don't live together or have kids? If so, I'd get rid.

cocksstrideintheevening · 28/08/2023 16:39

Urgh. Your family do t have to shag him. It's a non starter

shivermetimbers77 · 28/08/2023 16:39

I think it might be over OP. Probably fairest to both of you to end it and move on with your lives.

Alicew00 · 28/08/2023 16:40

No we don't live together and no kids. He's good with mine but no way I'd have anymore.

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HopeFloatsAbove · 28/08/2023 16:41

Not to be horrid here but you sound young. Correct me if this is wrong.

I would let him down gently, you are right it does not sound like you like him very much. And if you prefer your own time without him, its not very kind to keep him dangling.

Just tell him gently, without going into detail why, that this relationship has run its course. Its you and not him.

jeaux90 · 28/08/2023 17:10

Just finish it, FGS you don't fancy him and he sounds gross.

Blueeyedmale · 28/08/2023 17:29

From what you describe he does sound mature enough for an adult relationship its as simple as that,I wish you well op he needs to address why he behaves this way,but its not your issue find someone who respects you and is adult enough to handle a relationship!

Sparkletastic · 28/08/2023 17:33

You don't fancy him any more. For good reasons from what you describe. It's over.

yellowsmileyface · 28/08/2023 17:35

Sounds like you've got the ick. Once you've got the ick there's no going back to actually fancying them (I presume you did, at some point, fancy him?)

Once you've stopped fancying someone, it has this effect where everything they say, all their little mannerisms, the sound of their laugh, literally everything starts to annoy you.

And the expectation to still kiss, cuddle, have sex, etc seriously amplifies the disgust factor.

It's normal. Sometimes we just go off people.

fdgdfgdfgdfg · 28/08/2023 18:38

Sounds like you've just gone off him. You don't live together, have no kids together, why are you even having to think about it?

End the relationship and move on.

nonmerci99 · 28/08/2023 18:39

You should 100% dump this guy. Yesterday.

Mistymist · 28/08/2023 19:14

You've gone off him for the obvious reasons.
Just end it because there is no coming back from this. Also, the fact that your families get along doesn't matter at all. It's your life, not theirs!

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