Hi all, I went through my partners phone last night. We have been together for 2 years and he has been wonderful - I have never felt like this over someone and I've had some pretty rubbish luck in the past. At the very beginning before we ever really established what we were he had recently split from a very long term relationship that he hadn't been happy in for some time. I have spoken to the ex girlfriend and she had confirmed their unhappiness. However, they both slipped up and he had told me. Trust can take so long to earn and seconds to destroy and even though this was during the uncertainty stage of our relationship it is still in the back of my mind. Anyway, I went through his phone last night for the first time as I just had an inkling? I had seen messages and pictures from the ex girlfriend from all that time ago and although I knew about it, it still hurt to see. There was more than he had told me but I just can't feel normal around him now which breaks my heart. I regret doing this as I feel like I have just opened an already sealed can of worms. Do I confront him? Or is that unfair as we have come a long way since then. I feel awful 💔