I have spent the best past of six months talking to a woman (I am also a woman) and I feel like it’s been a complete and utter waste of time.
It started well, or so I thought, but she was actually keeping unnecessary things from me.
I should have walked back then, but I stupidly didn’t, because she was the first person I had properly liked since my ex four years ago. That plus the potential I thought I could see (stupid I know).
Now I have been accused of getting to know someone else right under her nose, and was told she won’t be made a fool of so it’s done.
After many questions, she told me why, and I categorically told her it was not true (because it isn’t). She believes the other persons actions to be shady, and is as a result saying she is unsure whether or not she can do it.
I have told told her punishing me for someone else’s actions, is really unfair and tbh I am just so done with it myself. It’s always one thing after the next and so I have just said let’s call it quits. Not something I wanted to say, because I hate knowing my time has been wasted but I really cannot do it anymore.
I guess my post is because I’m seeking reassurance I have done the right thing, and to help me basically go NC with her.
Thanks for reading.