I’ve been with my husband since late teens and married for 8 years, we have 2 DC. The relationship has been quite turbulent and his behaviour has made me quite unhappy in the relationship. A few months ago we split after months of arguing and just generally not getting on. For one reason or another we got back together, I did struggle with the feeling of letting go of the relationship but mostly the logistics of ending the relationship seem too much. For reasons i won’t go into, if we split we would both need to leave the family home. He would get given accommodation through his work, however I would need to rent. The rent in this area is expensive, and I work a pretty poorly paid job as it’s always worked around the children and allowed him to fufill his career. I don’t see how I can get out. Logistically I would risk being put in temporary accommodation with the children if I left, I really don’t want to uproot their lives and how they’re used to living, but the relationship makes me so unhappy.