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Hinge: Changed Location

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musiclove · 23/08/2023 23:49

Hi everyone - this is going to sound so silly, but I've been seeing a guy for about 3 months who I met on Hinge and things are going really well so far.. We've spent a lot of time together already and I really enjoy his company.

We're both currently away travelling for the month of August (separately) and I stupidly changed my location on Hinge to one of the places I was in last week, being nosey and honestly as a pick me up of some sorts on a rough day - I didn't talk with anyone nor had any intentions of doing so, but it just dawned on me that there's a possibility the guy I'm seeing might have seen a location change and think something of it - I've changed it back and feel like such a gobshite for editing it - we didn't have an exclusivity talk before we both left, but I do really like him and don't want him to think I was off seeing other people while I was away.

Would you explain the situation to him honestly, or just leave it and hope he didn't go on the app and see a location change? I'm afraid if he confronts me, I'll look like I'm hiding something.

I feel so silly, but I got such a gut wrenching feeling when I realised :-/

I'm super new to OLD - I'm 32F and had previously been in a 10 year relationship so it's all a bit of a minefield sometimes.

OP posts:
booksandbrooks · 24/08/2023 00:12

He'll only clock it if he's on there too.

musiclove · 24/08/2023 00:19

@booksandbrooks very true, I feel like such an idiot though! And wondering has he gone on to see if I'd changed my location, for example - there's a very large possibility I'm totally overreacting here and he hasn't seen anything but I also don't want to jeopardise things by making it look like I'm seeing other people when I'm not - agh I'm so out of touch with all this, I shouldn't have been so fickle about the app - is it a thing that people will go on to see if your profile has changed?

OP posts:
Whoknewitwasthishard · 24/08/2023 03:18

If this guy likes you and is ok it will work out

Loopylooni · 24/08/2023 04:31

Depends if he was on it too.

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