I was dating someone who is a ex addict ( coke ) , as we went on and he revealed more about himself he told me he had therapy weekly which I see as healthy , he said he had attempted suicide before and been to rehab.
then he started sleeping in a lot on a Saturday and sometimes the Sunday due to feeling depressed and told me he really was finding life hard and resisting the urge to I get some coke ( tho he didn’t ).
Then he saw me on my
Birthday evening , took me to the pub , I paid for a shitty hotel for the night , he didn’t have time he said to get me a card as it was all last minute arranged , I got a bit too drunk and told him he should of got me a card and that he was being a bit selfish sleeping in every weekend ,
Fast forward and his ”walls “ are apparently up , I’ve hurt him and he wants me to wait for him to sort himself out as he does this , puts them up and shuts down.
I’ve decided to walk away because I was feeling unsure of where I stood and his words looking back didn’t Align with how he was acting.
Why would someone though still suffering so much “trauma “
From their past go back on the dating scene ? I wish I hadn’t of got involved but a lesson learned , I think I also was a bit love bombed looking back , I followed the rules all except the dating other people and I did fall really fast for this guy
Just wondering what you guys think as I’m trying to move forward and not keep in contact with him