My partner and I have been together for a year, and decided to move in together. She has a daughter and I have a son and daughter. They’re all around the same age. So she has been going crazy at me about my kids since the day we moved in, my eldest is a gamer boy, he’s 17 we’ve moved away from his friends so he spends his time gaming online with them, my daughter dances most nights so is regularly out. They’re good kids, but can be a pain, they do leave empty packets in the cupboard which is annoying but they are getting better. Last night it kicked off royally because there was an empty wrapper in the cupboard, I told the kids to stop and let us know when they finish something. The funny thing is she finished the last can of coke and left the empty pack in the cupboard, and her daughter leaves half empty cans of drink everywhere. She didn’t take too kindly to this. Her daughter is a great kid and I treat her like my own, partner refuses to do the same.she has now decided she wants her and her daughter and me and my kids to have separate fridges and cupboards on the kitchen. I’ve told her that pathetic and they we no longer have 1 or 2 kids, WE now have 3 kids. But she isn’t having it. Now she wants us to stay in the home but not be a couple. I don’t want this. I love her desperately and can’t live with some one who doesn’t want to be with me. Am I wrong in thinking this?
her fiends are a pain, no matter what happens, they will always agree with her even if they know she is wrong, and this reinforces her feelings and means she can’t see sense. I’d do anything for her, I want to marry the girl, but how can I Be with someone and marry that person who is so horrible to me and about my kids. I need someone to kick me up the ass and tell me leaving her is the right thing to do, I’m sick of being miserable