Wrecking my own head here but wondering if anyone else feels like this : been single over 8 months now after getting my heart hurt by a guy who was emotionally unavailable. I still think of him and I have been through a lot this year and took a break from everything. Went online dating ( the joys ) but happened to come across a nice guy who said hes looking for a relationship. They are few and far between these days but Fair enough and i don’t know what I want right now but anyway I decided to go and meet him today for a coffee as he was the only guy who asked me to meet up and I decided to keep my head busy so I went and we got on well and he really seems like the settling down type and when we said goodbye I got a message saying I really enjoyed meeting you and I would like to take you for dinner 🥴but of course I’m not interested and I think it’s because I’m just not ready and I ask my self who do I always go for the unavailable bad boys , first world problems I know but it’s a head wreck and I’m disappointed in myself I guess I need to back off and stay single and heal myself more before going back out there and now I feel mean because I can’t reply to him. I’m totally emotionally unavailable aren’t I !!