We've been married for 10 years and have 3 kids together. This last year has been tough, lots of stresses mostly financial.
The last few weeks we've been arguing and tonight DH sat me down and said that he's pretty sure I've fallen out of love with him. He said he'd rather we separate now amicably then wait till the children are older (youngest is 2) and realise we are just together for the kids.
Trouble is I really don't know if I have fallen out of love with him or not. How do I know? I know I still love him and care about him, but I know we struggle with each other a lot. I don't want to give up too soon and split our family up but what if we could both be so much happier. How do I know if it's worth fighting for?