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georgiamae98 · 19/08/2023 20:17

I've been in a relationship for 6 years we share a 4 year old and recently we separated for a couple of months my partner moved back in but I am still so unhappy and very depressed. I love him as a father but I have no feelings for intimacy for him. I fancy other people, got close to someone who was a friend during the separation (nothing has happened but I developed feeling) etc.
It's my birthday today and he has spent an absolute fortune on me like so out of the blue as I said I didn't want anything! Now I feel so guilty for feeling this way and feel like I can't get out of the relationship ever.

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always2323 · 19/08/2023 20:47

You have got out of it once so you can so it again. Once you're out you won't feel so guilty

georgiamae98 · 19/08/2023 20:50

always2323 · 19/08/2023 20:47

You have got out of it once so you can so it again. Once you're out you won't feel so guilty

I have never got out of it really that's the thing during the separation he gave me no space whatsoever other than when I went to sleep he went and stayed at a different house.

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