We split just over a month ago. He has now finally moved out. I am really struggling to even get up and go to work. I know deep down it was the right decision but it doesn't make it any easier. I just don't know how to move forward. We were together nearly 9 years but luckily have no DC together. I keep trying to look into the future but I just can't see one without him. We have so many fantastic memories and quite a lot that aren't so good! I think secretly deep down I'm hoping he will realise his mistakes and we could be together and it would all be amazing but I know that won't happen and actually I don't think I want it to. I'm trying to keep busy but some day I physically can't it's just too painful. Guess I just need some reassurance that I'll be ok and some advice on how to move forward.