Been with my partner 10 years this October, 3 kids together 1 of which is 6 weeks old. We’ve had our problems along the way but always worked through it eventually. This last year has been tough, we had a miscarriage and then a pregnancy straight after which resulted in our 6 week old. There’s been some issues with DP like to do with women, talking to them behind my back, dating sites etc, I forgave him and we moved on…on more than one occasion. Fast forward to now things haven’t been great and they haven’t been for a while. We’ve had a ‘one last try’ loads of times, last one was at the beginning of the year, we got through it and was happy. And now this one, he’s saying the relationship is dead and boring and he doesn’t know what he wants. I said we have 3 children we can’t be as flexible as we used to be and as couples with no children. I said he either makes up his mind or he can go cos Im not doing this decision making every so often it’s draining and very childish. We both agreeed that 10 years is a long time to throw away just for the sake of the relationship gone a bit stale. Things have been fine up until now, basically my friends kids have tried prime and I just mentioned it to him in conversation and he said to me ‘our kids aren’t drinking it if you let them I promise you I will go and shag another woman’ now excuse me if I’m being a prude but is this not s bit extreme. Does that scream to you that’s that is what is on his mind? Part of me is thinking he’s saying it cos he knows if he says he will leave if I do it, I wouldnt give A toss, but then part of me is thinking it’s his way of saying he wants to sleep with other women cos he finds us boring.
im devestated by this comment and now im
questioning if this realationship is even worth saving. Would you let it slide or see it as something more sinister??😩😩