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Gut Feeling or Paranoia?

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Elf12345 · 14/08/2023 09:26

Hi, I’ve been with my bf for over two years and ever since we’ve been together I’ve had a feeling in my gut that he’s a bit too good to be true. Things have changed only a little bit since we live together as the honeymoon period is over but not bad at all. He’s always showering me with affection and showing me his caring side but since he started a new job over a year ago I feel like he’s changed but I can’t exactly say why, in the last few months I noticed he was working with a really attractive female colleague and I literally freaked out accusing him of cheating and having conversations about it all the time, he would get upset but didn’t seem overly unhappy that I kept accusing him and would reassure me. I just can’t shake a gut feeling with little or no evidence but spend most of my days stewing over it. I have no idea what is going on with me, I just feel like he’s not being genuine to me and there’s another side to him that I don’t see even though I’ve had no proof of that.

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ConnieTucker · 14/08/2023 09:39

Time to move on from this relationship

Oysterbabe · 14/08/2023 10:07

Your low self esteem is going to drive him away. It sounds tedious af.

Elf12345 · 14/08/2023 10:43

Hi yes you’re right. I feel like that is a lot to do with it. I wfh in a job I love but get little interaction with anyone, and live in an area that’s quite small whereas I used to live in the city and work with loads of people. I thought I could handle the small town life, but it’s making me feel like isolated as most of the people around here are quite small minded and it’s not very cultural. Don’t mean to sound like a snob though lol

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