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Hot and Cold what do people think

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Ash2345f · 14/08/2023 08:48

I’ve been seeing a guy for 5 weeks we have been seeing each other 3-4 times a week, anyway I went away with the girls for a few days and then at the end of the holiday he started being very different via text not responding for hours or not until the next day. However was still saying he couldn’t wait to see me etc. anyway we were meant to see each other Saturday but he didn’t get back to me and messaged me yesterday apologising he has since said he can’t wait to see me and I text saying I was free tonight yesterday but no reply yet. Do I call it a day ? Do I see what he says today if he comes over and address it it’s making me feel very confused.

before I went away we also agreed to become exclusive which is why this is confusing me even more when he was all over me before this

advice?!

OP posts:
Birthdayblu · 14/08/2023 09:01

My golden rule: mixed signals are a no.

Mumsnet threads about men you’re not in a committed relationship with are a no.

toss him back.

HamishTheCamel · 14/08/2023 09:04

Hmm sounds like he's lost interest, sorry OP.

Escapingafter50years · 14/08/2023 10:45

Judge someone by their actions, not their words.

This guys actions are waving red flags, hopefully you see them and walk away.

AttilaTheMeerkat · 14/08/2023 10:55

Call it a day with this man. He appears to be punishing you for you going away with your friends and that is a huge red flag re him.

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