DH and I have separated. We have primary aged kids. It’s all very amicable, we get on very well, still do a lot of stuff as a family, see friends all together, etc.
Financially it’s very tricky, as these things are, and we both have demanding jobs that sometimes involve travel, so practicalities are a thing too.
I’m debating proposing that we live together, apart. I.e. as a family but we are single people, separate bedrooms, etc. The kids know we are separated and have adjusted pretty well, though I know would like us to get back together - I’m sure most kids in this situation feel like this?
Obviously it’s not ideal but none of this is and I wonder if it’s a practical solution? Clearly would need some sort of ground rules, but I think we could make it work, kids won’t have to move, we will both be financially much more comfortable, easier in terms of juggling kids and work etc.
Would really welcome MN hive mind thoughts on this? Is it a terrible idea? Too confusing for the kids? Has anyone done this and did it/ does it work?