have been with my partner for nearly 9 years, we have two young DC. I know I will be judged but I would appreciate it if someone was harsh with me and told me what to do. For a few months I have been talking to someone I’ve known a while and we keep saying we will meet up. Every time we get close to meeting I cancel after making up an excuse. I would like to meet up but can’t as I am in a relationship. The other guy doesn’t push to meet or anything we just mention it sometimes and then I’ll cancel. I keep thinking about sleeping with this guy. I would love to meet up but I know what would happen.
my partner is away for a few days and I’m so tempted to message the other guy. Im not going to because I don’t think I could actually live with fully cheating and I really like my relationship with my partner even though I feel this way?? We have a lot of sex even though we have young kids, we go on occasional date nights and we get on well so why do I want to meet this other guy?
Has anyone got any advice? I don’t mind being told the truth, I know i look like an awful person. I need to stop thinking about sex with this other guy but how?