I thought well of him until it dawned on me one day that he never had anything nice to say about me and was putting me down all of the time, making me more self conscious which I didn’t need, taking whatever last bit of self esteem I had. I was never good enough. Whenever something awful happened to me, it would always somehow be something I deserved, no moral support either. He was never kind. I was always walking on egg shells because of his moods, always trying to cheer him up, he was always snapping at me. The first time I pointed it out to him, he said he shows his love through his actions and wants me to better myself. But I thought there was more to it than that. So I pointed it out to him again, which was when he broke up with me, because he can’t deal with me pushing him? I flippantly swore and he thought he had discovered my “true face” and called me pure evil which I thought was an over reaction. I later wished him well as he clearly has issues, I’m assuming he was trying to make himself feel bigger, based on what he’s told me about himself before? .I sent a message to let him know I realised what he had been doing, destroying me bit by bit, clearly never loved me, hope he gets help, and he has said he isn’t even going to read it as I am only trying to manipulate him.