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Experience of shuttle mediation with emotionally abusive Ex?

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EliflurtleTripanInfinite · 10/08/2023 12:07

Has anyone done this? Normal mediation was horrible, but I'm wondering if shuttle mediation (different rooms) might help us agree on some of the less contentious issues. Good, Bad, Meh if anyone is happy to share their experiences I'd love some advise from those that have tried this.

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 10/08/2023 13:05

Mediation is not recommended anyway when there is abuse of any type with the relationship. You are not emotionally safe enough to do such sessions with him.

I would have a chat with Women’s Aid and or the Rights of Women organisations about this issue.

roses321 · 10/08/2023 13:19

What are you mediating over? My ex (also abusive) refused to do mediation at all so I just kind of did what I thought was right when separating our things. I got a counsellor and I'm working with him on what's reasonable and what isn't, my ex doesn't get a say because he's er... abusive.

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