Can I have some views on this please?
I have an ok relationship with my partners brothers wife, we don’t particularly have too much in common and I wouldn’t say I gel with her that well. Am I expected to go out with her and do other things together?
I was taking my daughter out at the weekend to the cinema as a treat and to spend time together as work always gets in the way, she had mentioned brothers wife wanted to come and I said no to my daughter for above reasons but it’s got back to the brothers wife which I feel awful about. She didn’t ask me directly if she could come and I probably would have said yes if she had.
OH has gone mad saying I never include her and I keep her at arms length and has made it all out like I’m a bad/ nasty person . I’ve felt really upset all morning.