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Scary thought at ending relationship with two important people

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Pinkshamrock15 · 07/08/2023 22:05

My relationship isn't working for multiple reasons and I know that I should end the relationship but there are a few problems - one being I'm 33 weeks pregnant and the other I'm due to finalise buying my house in the next 4 weeks. I'm actually buying my mums 50% of the house I'm living in and not only am I scared to leave this house and buy another as it has sentimental meaning but it means moving with my two little girls who are 7 and 11. I can't talk to my mum about the problems in my relationship as she is absolutely hellbent on getting her money and texts me daily to ask if there are any updates (this makes me despise her more than words can say) and doesn't ask how me and the children are at all! This has gone on for months as the first lender retracted the offer last minute and the stress has been unbearable. Because of her behaviour and his I feel petrified of ending two relationships at this time. If I told her I wanted to end the relationship with my partner and sell the house or ask for more time she would undoubtedly fall out with me. Then I'm doubting am I capable of being so isolated? I've been weighing this up for a month or so now but I just don't know what to do.

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