My partner really dislikes my Dad ,my parents are divorced and moved to separate ends of the country I lived with my mum and got pregnant at 19 I told my Dad my news and he told me at the time to get a termination as it's what's best for me and that he won't support me in my decision ,my partner was extremely angry at this and proceeded to tell my Dad he doesn't have to support me as he would ,I worked but being only 19 money wasn't exactly endless and I wasn't entitled to maternity pay so I was kinda relying on his wage but still anyway my dad continued to say he wouldn't speak to me unless I got a termination and so I told him I wouldn't miss him ,my mum told me the same she said he's not worth it etc so I didn't speak to him for my entire pregnanc,also its worth saying I found out I was pregnant at 13 weeks and told him at 15 weeks so it wasn't a case of just taking a pill anyway ! This caused me ALOT of trauma as i was a daddys girl growing up ,He ended up contacting me when my daughter was born,he didn't apologise he just acted like nothings happened and then since he lived far away we only saw him a few times a year since, I'm 27 now and still in contact with my Dad though hes not really talkative person so were not that close its kind of a weird relationship like he's still grandad etc and i speak to him but it's not like I speak to him every day kind of a relationship ,Anyway nearly 10 years later I'm on baby number three and my partner still Resents my Dad and will not go on meals out etc if he can help it ,he doesn't respect him and still thinks he's out of order for disowning me back then and it's starting to get me down because I have forgiven my Dad though I still feel afraid to be honest with him like if he asked me how I am I couldn't tell him I'm stressed or having financial problems or anything like that ,couldn't even tell him I had a misscarriage because I feel I can't talk to him about important things like that or on an emotional level and I know it's down to the way he treated me back then but I do forgive him and miss him and spend time with him when possible and it just causes me upset that my partner hates him and when I say to him that was almost a decade ago and people say things they regret etc his response is always doesn't matter he said what he said and meant it ,I just don't know what to do about it all and he's saying he wants to live near me now so he can see me more often and I'm getting upset that the two of them will never get along like how I want them too and it'll always be tension when he visits ,just need advice really I think ,I think my partner is right to be angry but I hate that my partner hates my Dad and idk what to do