Do I need closure?

[whatthefuckisnext]

I got unceremoniously and unexpectedly dumped a month ago after a fairly blissful year relationship.

I'm struggling to move past it as I quickly ended the conversation and went no contact so I don't really know wtf happened and I'm now questioning if the whole relationship was a lie. I know he doesn't want me and that's closure enough, but I'm really toying with asking to meet or call for a chat. I could never trust him again so don't want him back, just keep running over the possible reasons in my head and it's keeping me stuck. Wwyd?

Grit your teeth and look after yourself. Does it really matter why exactly? He's made his mind up. Not being flippant, I know this stage is awful but he could decline to speak to you, be rude or give a false reason. At least you currently know what emotions you're dealing with and time is slowly doing its work even if it doesn't feel like it. You will be fine before too long.

If this was a relationship of a month or three fine but this is a whole year, it's normal to want to meet up and ask questions. He had a year of your life!