We had DD's naming ceremony on Friday. A mutual friend of ours who is also a friend of my ex husband attended. He told me that my ex husband wanted to speak to me to congratulate me on our new arrival and then asked if he could call him. I said that I didn't feel that it was appropriate and that my ex husband has my telephone number and could call me himself if he wished. Unknown to me, this conversation was recorded on camera. DH saw it a couple of days ago and announced this morning that he feels he can't trust me anymore because I indicated that I still wanted contact with my ex. I explained that having just given birth to our daughter 12 days ago that nothing could be further from the truth. DH has since spent the day pretending that everything is FINE, but I know him well enough to know that this is still weighing heavily on his mind. I feel that he's being really unfair, because not only would I never cheat on him, but now is the time that I need his support most. DD is our first baby and I'm struggling to cope with motherhood as it is. Think that DH is being really selfish by banging on about the whole trust thing at the moment. Any thoughts on how to deal with this?