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Am I being dramatic ?

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Paintedtoenail · 05/08/2023 23:42

Okay , so it will read like a drip feed and that’s because it is. I can’t go into detail due to outing reasons but my husband lies to me. That’s the crux of it.
Tonight I found out through a friend he has recently made a financial purchase for around £700.

A few years back I suspected he had cheated on me emotionally. They say your gut is for a reason.
Guess I am just feeling let down: I don’t work due to mental ill health. I look after our children 99% of the time as he works abroad and this has left me feeling very vulnerable and annoyed at the same time.
Thoughts? And again, apologies for the drip feed but too outing.

OP posts:
sodthesodoff · 05/08/2023 23:47

I don't know what you want thoughts on

You open with the phrase you husband lies to you

Not sure what you can do with that as it's not salvageable in my opinion

JibbaJab · 05/08/2023 23:56

Yeah, hard to say but that's a fair amount to spend isn't it? Do you know what on or?

Paintedtoenail · 06/08/2023 00:01

It has opened up a whole new can of worms. It was for an electrical device.

I just feel so vulnerable as he’s not told me.
I didn’t believe he’s capable of lies but a few years back I believe ( know ) he cheated on me emotionally.

I honestly don’t know what to do anymore with any of it . He works away so much that I would not know what he is telling is the truth or not anyway. I only know because he is with me . Otherwise I would never have known.

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Kpcs · 06/08/2023 00:15

You’re upset he bought something without consulting you? I think you’re overreacting.

if he cheated on you and you no longer trust him, that’s something different altogether.

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