I don't know what to do about my relationship. I've been with my OH for over 6 years. I feel like we just “live” together. We don't talk much about anything. We are both quiet anyway and I think after a busy day at work we enjoy peace. But still….
There's no affection between us. We don't kiss or hug at all. Hes not that type of guy to do this but I always did this in previous relationships.
He moved into my flat but doesn't help out with the housework. I sometimes feel like he doesn't have to as it is my flat after all that I have with my daughter. He doesn't clean the bathroom, hoover, dust. He'll sometimes put the washing on, wash dishes. That's it. I have a cat too, which he does love. But again he sometimes gives him food. Otherwise, he'll leave it to me and the litter tray.
If there's no milk, he won't make the effort to get some, he'll wait for me to get it.
If my daughter wants a takeaway treat I feel like I have to ask him if he wants anything too and he always agrees. Leaving me to pay for it! He never buys any treats for the house or takeaways. But buys expensive designer clothes. I feel like im being used!
I feel like there's nothing in return. He is a decent guy but very lazy. The cleaning issue has been brought before but his excuse was he's a bloke who doesn't see dirt🙄
And he's always on his phone. I'm.cleaning the house after a full days work (I work 45–50 hours a week) and he doesn't even offer to help!
What should I do?