advice please, my ex partner hasn’t paid for the children in 2 years, said if I leave he’ll never pay a penny again which I accepted as a life with him would be worse and that seemed a small price to pay. After a year of rebuilding my life and a restraining order which changed my life immensely! I’m so much happier and more confident so I thought “no this isn’t right why shouldn’t he pay” so I contacted csa and they set up a payment plan which of course he didn’t pay once they then switched to collect and pay directly from the employer which has still never been paid, I believe the “employer” is a friend. The arrears are going up and up of course and csa tell me they’ll take action etc but I’ve never heard of anyone actually going to court, loosing their driving licence etc does anyone know if it is a lost cause or will something eventually be done. I know it’s the last little bit of control he has over me so he will cling on to it for as long as possible. Thank you for reading x