How would you feel….

[Maybemaybenot76]

About your partner of 10 years and father of your children, hanging out socially with colleagues and one in particular who has blocked your number because you dared ask if your partner was with them, when he was ignoring you on a night out after you had an argument, because they “won’t help me keep him on a leash.” I was also pregnant at the time.

This woman is undoubtedly not the best.
However, she would be of no relevance to your life at all if your partner was a decent man.
She couldn't have cheated with him without him being a cheat.
She wouldn't have blocked you and called you controlling if your partner had done right by you that night as you'd have had no reason to engage with her.
His ongoing contact with her wouldn't be an issue if he acted like a responsible family man rather than going out drinking with these people all the time.
If it wasn't for him, this unpleasant woman wouldn't have any relevance at all. Get rid of one problem and the other goes with it.