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On the edge !! Help

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Klara40 · 04/08/2023 19:46

I’m married with one child 7 years old, and living in a hell ( inside of my mind ) to the point where I can’t focus on anything except on my husbant, how he talks, how he walks…. My husband irritates me 24/7, whatever he says or do i am just so irritated, that i have to take anxiety pills constantly. I can’t focus on my work, I can’t focus on my child, i am constantly angry, depressed and anxious. I think I don’t love him as well. Problem is that he is a very good husband, good father, good man, providing us easy ( luxury ) life, helping in the house, treat me as a princess….but also, he is an introvert, antisocial and pretty boring person…I am scared to leave for the next reasons 1. If i leave him, he will go back to his country and my child will not see him often and it will destroy her and she will basically all depend on me 2. I am not sure can I continue this life alone as i have a history of mental problems ( anxiety and OCD ) even before him, and i am scared that i will be even more depressed once i am single mother. My question is what would you do if you were at my place ? Do you think that it’s possible that someone irritates you to the point where you can’t live normal life and you go to the deep depression, but in other hand that person is caring about you and doesn’t do anything bad. Sorry for the long post, but i wanted to give some background too, so you could understand the situation better. Klara

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cupcakeandcoffee · 04/08/2023 19:59

I hope you don't mind me asking but could you possibly be starting peri menopause? Some of the things you describe can be symptoms that can make you feel this way. HRT can make a big difference. Or has he always irritated you this way?

Klara40 · 04/08/2023 20:27

Thank you for your answer. I am 40, so I think it’s still early for menopause 🙈 I think that he started irritating me after ( let’s say ) 2 years for our relationship, when we got married it became really intense

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