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Why do I feel like I'm doing something wrong?

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JoantheVampireSlayer · 04/08/2023 16:13

My H and I have been married for 10 years. Last year he walked out of our home with no warning and I haven't seen or spoken to him since. He (and his family) are behaving like absolute monsters, treating me worse than dirt. I honestly can't believe my life has come to this, I am bereft.
In a desperate attempt to feel better I joined a friendship website and have been (very innocently) talking to a guy for the last 3 days.
He is friendly and kind and has been making me smile for the first time in months but the whole time I feel absolutely sick with guilt like I'm cheating on my H. I haven't done anything, and I don't intend to, but I feel so conflicted. Why??

OP posts:
anonymousxoxo · 04/08/2023 16:13

How are you cheating if he's no longer around? Apply for divorce and move on.

Summerhillsquare · 04/08/2023 16:21

Probably because your a nice person who's been betrayed. Don't beat yourself up over it. Make a plan for your new life!

Oh and avoid OLD til you feel confident. It's a bear pit 😁

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