some one from work confessed he really likes me .. help x

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im in a complete mess changed my name for this, my dp hasnt been as straight with me as id have likes been texting other people whih he calls harmless flirting, i feel so let down by him and completley dissapointed in him although i love him so much and really want to be with him but my dilema being some one from work who always has made me laugh confessed last night he really likes me, and think i like him but dunno if its just cos my dp has been such a shit lately, hes asked me to go out on a date and to be honest i wanna co.... dont lynch me! just duuno if im just doing to to get revenge or if i like this bloke as dp isnt making me laugh much right now, aaargh dunno what to do! any advice

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hey theres nowt wrong being a slapper, i used to be one and somethins wish i still was not bogged down with dp! life used to be so fun, tell you what if you dont want this bloke throw him my way i'll have an affair with him(as long as he doesnt look like the back end of a bus, i do have standards!) yeh right

update..... finished work on tuesday night and he collard me at the door and walked me to my car... (how sweet) sat talking to him for about 1/2 an hour and it was nice, nice to giggle! told me hes liked me for ages said i looked nice, was completle emmbarrased not used to compliments! been texting me ever since, feel crap on dp, but was with dp all day yesterday and he had a face like a smacked arse all day, moaned at everything i said ... as normal, so found myself texting this guy more, he made me smile and i found i could ignore dp misrable face, usually i walk on egg shells when hes in a huff but no not last night i ignored his huff and guess what he sharp come out if it! and even said sorry..... bloody hell not a word he uses too often! so still in dilema but kinda liking the attention, am i bad?

The grass always looks greener on the other side!

i know, thats what i keep thinking, i know its just cos hes paying me a little attention! if i stary anything i'll regret it i think cos i do love dp he can just be so sensible and boring at times! not grounds for an affair thou

My relationship started because we met at work and got to know each other really well over a few drinks - perhaps you could do the same? your going out might get your dp thinking at the very least, then you both may be able to talk your problems through. What suits him should also suit you and if the relationship is worth saving then this gentle flirting with another person will cut the wheat from the chafe. If you feel your current relationship is wrong then now would be the best time to do something about it. (By the way, I was married when I met my DP and although it isn't an easy decision, I don't regret it for a moment. DP, DS and I are very happy together)

so a happy ending then? well i was out on sat night and saw him and think i made a tit of myself, drink started talking! ooops will see him this afternoon thou if he blanks me suppose know where i stand