Drunken kiss

[Marie2222]

Saturday I went out with my partner and he was really horrible ro me ,he handed me my bankcard and money for a taxi ,this isn't the first time he has left me on a night out
I stayed out on my own ,and ended up drunk ,a man came over and started to talk and ask me if I was OK, because I was a blubbering mess ,we ended up kissing ,should I tell?

Don’t tell him, he’ll use it against you, he sounds like a prick.

Leaving you repeatedly on nights out when you’re drunk and could end up being taken advantage of is a shitty thing to do. Please dump him. You deserve someone better.

Whatever you decide don’t worry too much about it

"...should I tell?" Certainly not.

...and I hope you got a little bit of fun out too it too. x

Don;t tell him, just end the relationship.

No don't tell him. But take this golden opportunity to leave him.

This times a million

Why did he have your bank card?

Actually I would tell him at the same time I kicked him to the curb.

I wouldn't bother telling him, but I would end the relationship. Why stay with someone who's horrible to you?

I don't think you should be in this relationship either.
He was 'horrible' which is bad enough, but you chose to respond to that by staying out alone, getting messy drunk and responding to another man's (faked) sympathy, which you probably wouldn't have otherwise.
If this is what being with him leads to, you need something a lot healthier.

No
but maybe this is a sign to end it

I told him

I definitely wouldn't tell him he should never have left you on your own
Not a decent man
I would enjoy that secret moment to yourself
He doesn't deserve you xx

This really doesn't sound like a healthy relationship on either side.

You asked for advice, pretty much everyone said 'don't tell' and yet you did.

How did it go?