Ex husband literally took all our assets, pissed them away so there was nothing to split.
Got £50,000 of costs awarded against me in family court because i tried to demonstrate this to the court who didn’t believe me.
Now wants to enforce this order, i have no way of paying it unless the court makes me sell my house to do so. Which I wouldn’t put past them.
And then today he sends me a message saying he pays me £500 a month of child support no matter what I earn …
this has seriously sent me over the fucking edge today. Like he has caused all of this emotional and financial damage to my life, and he seems to think that he shouldn’t be paying child-support if I am earning to a level where he deems it’s unnecessary. I am literally on the verge of taking a baseball bat to his head and smacking him around it like it’s a watermelon. I would actually enjoy doing so.
If I was going to murder him, I would’ve done it 15 years ago and id be out by now so i am completely joking.
But in all seriousness, how do I let go of this shit?