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Neighbour issues

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Blushingm · 29/07/2023 13:36

I have a real issue with one of my neighbours.

We had an issue where I had to ask her to move her car. She was purposely parking less than an inch from my bumper so I couldn't get out. Aw I need to be on call for work my manager told me to inform the police (I work in health care)

I did and the police told her to stop

Since then she has been absolutely vile.

I don't engage with her - can't even remember the last time I actually spoke to her.

My black bag rubbish was split by seagulls the other day on the curb so the wind caught some. Council didn't pick it up and I was actually away.

She raised a concern with my employer accusing me of disposing of clinical waste and being aggressive and intimidating whilst in my uniform. Accusing me of pouring rotting meat over her car and loads of other random stuff.

I'm am the most un aggressive person you could meet - even my grown up kids tease me that I didn't shout at them enough!!!

I really have no idea what to do about this woman - contacting my employer was vindictive and actually quite embarrassing!

OP posts:
ArcticLingered · 29/07/2023 14:47

I'm sorry you have had to expereince this OP. Keep a diary of what happens and when, with her. She may cool down in time, but the diary is just in case she does not. Do you know why she was parking so close to your bumper?

Blushingm · 29/07/2023 15:44

I meant the council did pick it up not that they didn't.

@ArcticLingered I've no idea - I heard her laughing about and telling her husband but I don't know why

OP posts:
AttilaTheMeerkat · 29/07/2023 16:28

Speak to the police again and inform them her behaviour has escalated into maliciously contacting your employer. This is harassment and should not be at all tolerated.

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