Been together 3.5 years, found out he's been sexting other women on Snapchat of all things! Didn't think he was this sort of person at all and I feel totally blindsided.
He's the first person I let in properly since splitting with the kids dad and I naively let my guard down and fully trusted him. I honestly don't know how I will ever trust anyone again after this. I am so fed up of people letting me down and treating me like this. I worry it's me, do I let people act like this towards me? What am I doing wrong? I literally feel like giving up on men at this point apart from the fact I have a great dad and brother so I know there are good guys out there!
I am most worried about my two youngest 10 and 5 who have grown really attached to him over the last two years, he even moved in a couple of months ago. What a mess. Kids on his side too. What will I say to them. They will miss him loads they see him more as a dad than their own useless one. Feel like I've let them down.